Toots for renardroi@mastodon.art account

Written by Grim on 2025-01-29 at 15:23

i think in this new era people should be really careful and thoughtful about posting aggregated lists of queer people or people of color if the people on the list didn't ask to be on the list. your mastodon instance is not as private as you think it is, bsky is not as trustworthy as you think it is, etc. and as much you might think you're benefiting people, you might also be putting people at risk that they should be aware of before you shared online

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-28 at 15:42

probably i would have far less hatred in my heart for polyester fabrics if it werent for the fact that like. all my clothes with polyester in them are coming apart at the seams even when some are only a few months old. im definitely on a quest for better stuff. trying to shift my wardrobe to 100% cotton or linen or wool as much as i can

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-28 at 15:37

i keep trying to find substitutes for the meundies brand. for some reason (lol) it seems really hard to find quality, durable, fabric, strong waistband, and a decent size range. 😭 the woes of the polyester age

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-27 at 15:34

my friend had never seemed to hear the idiom "throwing the baby out with the bath water" yesterday and i tried to look up the origin of it only to find everything pointing to an old satirical German ?book? or page from something. however, no one actually wrote in English what the page says and trying to type the letters into google translate had reminded me that i don't know old calligraphy that well and also German has probably changed

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-23 at 22:33

in other, happier news. my friend asked me to make them a character like my furry outlaw sona I posted the other day. and I'm super happy with how it's coming along. birds can be super hit or miss for me!! but he's looking alright

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-23 at 21:14

my dreams of putting together a friendly little art collective or group seem so distant and impossible. I just don't know if I'm cut out for handling interpersonal conflict without having a complete meltdown. I don't know why I'm so sensitive to these things.

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-23 at 21:12

they've shot down a lot of my ideas, or steamrolled me with arguments about why it should be done their way, and then they told me the vibes were bad and asked me if i wanted to work on anything or if they're supposed to do all the work.

I expressed my frustration when prompted, and then got treated as hostile basically.

I'm just devastated. it sucks so bad to orphan this project but I think for my sanity I have to.

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-23 at 21:07

I said I wasn't going to be chatty here but this is the only place where my friends don't really follow me.

trying to work on what I thought would be a cool project with them has spun out into a huge argument. I feel like a failure for not being able to finish projects time and time again, but I also feel like my joy and energy has been shredded by the group.

I don't know how to handle this except to call it quits and just stop trying to collab with people. 😭😭😭

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-22 at 17:29

for the foreseeable future, unfortunately I will not be as chatty on here. I'm currently in the process of reevaluating my presence online.

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-22 at 17:28

I've officially gone and deactivated my twitter accounts. i'm considering getting rid of ig as well, but only hesitate because it's a lifeline to my friends in my hometown.

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-20 at 05:29

beloved friend just asked me to draw shadow the hedgehog from memory. here's a before and after i checked a reference. cant believe i forgot his cunty little eyeliner

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-19 at 06:29

outlaw

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-16 at 19:19

I mentioned followfriday in my original post. clearly I am Aware of tags, and somewhat aware of the culture here. I have been on m.art for almost seven years. I guess I should default all my posts to being followers-only or suffer the wrath of random people in my mentions being weird. well anyways I guess I'll be taking a brief break from m.art and I will return in a few days when I've drawn something so that I am also not only making miscellaneous text posts.

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-16 at 19:13

there's a very strong presence on federated social media of tech people who might not consider themselves Tech Bros but who are far too comfortable being sarcastic, snarky, demeaning, or even just very mildly brusque to people on the internet that they don't know and who did not solicit their attention in particular. the culture sometimes sucks here, and while i like m.art it makes it so so hard to Love being here.

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-16 at 19:03

okay I deleted the post. much love but I don't enjoy people who do not follow me/i don't follow snarkily telling me how to browse tags. I forget that asking for suggestions on masto is miserable if you don't restrict your post beforehand

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-12 at 20:33

here's the base sketch which i still love on its own.

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-12 at 08:02

freerunner

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-10 at 22:55

born too late to be addicted to cigarettes, born too early to be addicted to vapes. sober as fuck on the internet reading and writing yaoi

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-09 at 21:31

if you want to see a stark example of the way that the non-profit industry can directly work against the interests of those it purports to help, all you have to do is look at the comments on the government proposal to get rid of sub-minimum wage for people with disabilities. The Arc's in various communities are in the comments fighting against the proposal to preserve the status quo

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Written by Grim on 2025-01-08 at 22:47

heard back from my friend of like 17 years and they're safe. resisting the urge to cry. weirdly feeling like i wish i was back home to help people out, to be more connected to people

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