I never predicted I would become one of those people who have a hard time during the holidays because of some sad thing that happened during them in the past, but here I am! It's been a year since my ex ruined the holidays for me (which I previously loved and wish to love again).
I got overwhelmed the other evening when I looked in the attic at all the christmas stuff, plus all my ex's shit that he left up there to "come get later".
Just a reminder of how he used me for 13 years.
BUT! ...
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The saving grace is my partner who loves me and held me when I cried after coming down the ladder from the attic.
We are taking back the holidays together and trying to reclaim them π
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@dyani Itβs such a testing time for so many, often for different reasons. Hope you find some strength soon. ππ»
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@benjamincox thanks! π
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@dyani nothing stopping you from dropping off all the things you have been left storing, at a new address or a neutral location, and might be theraputic to close off a chapter? Either way, huggs from someone who understands Christmas not being easy and magical all the time π«
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