Random handy thing:
This website's only function is to act as a vertical separator in your bookmarks bar:
https://separator.mayastudios.com/index.php
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Popping in to ask for good book recs about neurodivergence + addiction, or just addiction.
This is for an autistic distant family member addict who was recently incarcerated and is asking for books to read about addiction (which is a huge good step for him).
Boosts welcome! :boosts_appreciated:
@actuallyautistic #ActuallyAutistic
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This is one of my favorite video game lofi songs. Every time it comes on in my focusing playlist I focus EXTRA GOOD
https://youtu.be/K8pYfGC6G24
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Something integral to my unlearning toxic productivity has been to pause when I'm working on a project for my job and ask myself:
What can I stop doing, permanently? Or, what am I doing now that really doesn't do much good for the amount of time I put into it?
Some of those answers usually are: obsessing over exact wording, exact placement in a design (hi, graphic designer here), and other "exact" stuff. Exactness begone! I will stop letting myself be exploited by my job, as much as possible!
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I'm at war with the holiday mode that is threatening to take over my entire productivity capability.
I have lots to finish up at work this week, but absolutely no desire to keep working. I have 1.5 weeks of vacation if I can just make it to friday!
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STOP SCROLLING FOR A SEC!
It's time for an #ActuallyADHD poll ✨
How many empty cups/drink receptacles can you see from where you are right now?
🙈 My answer: 4 on my desk (a tea mug, a mason jar, a protein shake bottle, and a water bottle). lol. I have now made a pile of them in front of my door so I have to take them to the kitchen when I exit my office next.
@actuallyadhd
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The saving grace is my partner who loves me and held me when I cried after coming down the ladder from the attic.
We are taking back the holidays together and trying to reclaim them 💙
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I never predicted I would become one of those people who have a hard time during the holidays because of some sad thing that happened during them in the past, but here I am! It's been a year since my ex ruined the holidays for me (which I previously loved and wish to love again).
I got overwhelmed the other evening when I looked in the attic at all the christmas stuff, plus all my ex's shit that he left up there to "come get later".
Just a reminder of how he used me for 13 years.
BUT! ...
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[This important message brought to you by my cat]
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Some poetic ramblings in which I try to capture the core of him, imperfectly.
After a while I prefer to set the words free and post them, no need for much refinement.
https://dyani.bearblog.dev/supernova-poetic-ramblings/
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his spirit orients forward,
friends with the future despite everything,
vortex singing over his wings as he goes.
i revel in his slipstream
and he in mine.
[#]poetry
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Stuff that I've come to accept is very hard for my #ActuallyADHD brain:
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On the one-year anniversary of having written the above post mere days after my horrible ex told me he wanted a divorce, I just wanted to say:
First, I am proud of myself for knowing this about myself even from within heartbreaking sorrow;
And more importantly, some of you know this but I have actually found someone new who loves me more than I have ever been loved before. I'm so happy and thankful I found them.
If I'm away, if I'm not often here, don't worry--I'm with them having a blast 💖
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I want to constantly soften soften soften, in all aspects, for the rest of my life.
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I love being loving.
It's somewhat self-serving because I think it just feels so good to be loving.
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An actual email sent by an actual employee at my work, to celebrate the holiday season with intense eye pain. 😵😭
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I play ukulele. Is that surprising?
I told a friend and they were shocked, and I was in turn shocked that she thought this information was shocking.
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I am easy to confuse. I am easy to trick. I love with my whole heart. Someone could crush it easily. I realized this and pieced it together in words just last night.
I can't help being this way. But I don't want to change it. Yeah, it's very vulnerable. But I don't care. Yeah, it makes life kinda scary. But I don't care.
I am humbled by this realization and I'm proud of it. I'm proud of what it makes me.
My heart glows out of my chest and I hope everyone can see it 🫀
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I believe healing from trauma can and should happen socially through our family structures and close communities.
You and I are not meant to heal solely through talking to a therapist periodically. You and I are meant to be held and nurtured by friends and loved ones, made to feel understood and like we belong. We need to be deeply supported. Therapy is just a catalyst.
So who can you hold and nurture today?
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"Imagine if we measured success by the amount of safety that people felt in our presence."
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