I've had a couple folks compliment my laughter, especially when they're teasing* me, and… I dunno.
In the moment, I worry about being off-putting to those around me. Afterwards, I wonder if they're feeling obligated because of how positively I respond to their attention.
It's weird. I have to wrestle myself to not frequently ask if they're actually happy or just trying to be nice to me. To not fret that if I let myself continue to express shy happiness about things, some folks will go until they're burn out.
…and, I mean, one notable friend did burn out, but.. they said it wasn't my fault. I still feel unsure.
(* It's more of pleasantly overwhelming while being caring, weighted blanket-like teasing. Not derogatory teasing.)
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