It's been suuuch a process of letting go and knowing that they're going to forge their own relationships with my kid eventually but it's up to me to set the parameters now.
Which includes safety around germ exposure, clear communication about expectations, asking for what we need with no attachment to what's offered, and many other things that our upbringing really didn't set us up for.
I have always prioritized my siblings a lot, and I feel so much guilt but I HAVE to put my baby first.
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