Toot

Written by library cryptid 📚 on 2024-12-18 at 12:29

Naysayers claiming my long distance relationship will never work get funnier the longer my partner and I are together. They get more desperate to disprove me too.

"Well, when you finally meet and have to be around each other all the time, you might realize you don't actually like each other!"

Highly unlikely, we already spend pretty much every free minute on call and are perfectly fine, I really don't think physically being in the same space will change that. It'd be very hard for them to pretend to be someone completely else for years and years without me catching on, give me some credit.

"They're gonna have habits or routines you don't like!"

Yeah, and? Everyone does. The key here is communication and compromise. Like in every other relationship.

"But, but, what if they annoy you?"

Then I tell them hey, I'm a bit overwhelmed, can you leave me alone for a bit? And they'll do it because we've already been in this situation a million times. It's called respecting boundaries.

Really, all these people are revealing here is their own skill issues with relationships and trust. Maybe work on that before judging others, babes.

(Dishonorable mention to the ones claiming either of us is a grifter out for our money: we're both broke as fuck, we'd be the worst grifters ever lol)

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