Oh yeah, one more thing.
I'm not walking away from SGW, but it sure as fuck ain't a priority to me right now.
I just had someone ask me if I could ask @twipped to surrender the GDB to someone else after all she's been through and like
Jesus fucking christ, I'm kind of in awe at the entitlement.
And in combination with everything else, it's left me reassessing what place SGW ought to have, and what I should and should not put into it. I built it as a gift of thanks to the community that welcomed and healed me, and a shocking number of people have taken its existence as entitlement to me, and that I have personal obligations to them because it exists.
I've tried to be understanding. People are in weird and hard spots because of the realities of hatching and transition. I get that.
But seriously?
Some people need to learn what a parasocial relationship is.
I'm happy to try and build a friendship with damn near anyone, but if and when people I do not know, or barely know expect and demand we do deeply personal, difficult, or risky shit for them?
What the actual fuck?
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