@jrdepriest hey there from an internet stranger, I've been deep in those feelings myself as far as housecleaning. It sounds like you're doing so much already with work and caring for a disabled spouse, and then the added stress and anxiety of being trans in this sociopolitical climate. I wanted to reassure you that it's normal to not have a pristine house in those conditions.
Would you be able to perhaps hire a cleaner to get things in a state that would ease your mind before your relatives come? Or would they be willing to help? Many times people are happy to help if they know how.
I just wanted to make sure you know you're not alone. I've also beat myself up a lot for my house not being in as nice of shape as I'd like. I just keep telling myself if people want to judge, that's on them, I'm doing the best I can. I know you're doing the best you can too. 💜
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