Ancestors

Written by Eric Daryl Meyer on 2025-01-18 at 00:08

Well... I guess it was official on Tuesday, but the final divorce decree just made it to me today. So... months after it ended in a few other (more important, imo) senses, my 18 year marriage is now over in a legal sense too.

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Written by Eric Daryl Meyer on 2025-01-18 at 00:10

When I went in to sign all the papers last week, I thought that it would be no big deal... But it really fucked me up the next day. Cycled back into sad, angry, and abandoned feelings that I thought I'd mostly worked through.

Wondering how this final paperwork from the judge is going to hit me...

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Written by Eric Daryl Meyer on 2025-01-18 at 00:13

Regardless... these papers are one of the last pieces I need to buy my new place and move out, move on. All the hurt and anger on the "moving out" side sucks... but there's definitely excitement and relief on the "moving on, moving in" side. And I think that gettiing settled in the new place is only going to make things better.

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Written by Eric Daryl Meyer on 2025-01-18 at 00:15

So... the next couple weeks of sorting, packing, and moving will be hard. Going to practice compassion toward myself through whatever this entails. And beyond that horizon, I'm looking forward to things being way simpler, way more straightforward, more peace...

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Written by JNL on 2025-01-25 at 02:58

@ericdaryl Just seeing this. Hugs to you- how's it going?

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