Today's #selfCare is banana bread.
Mmmn, bananananana.
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In case this blows up I should emphasize that this is a small operation (at the moment, at least), but they seem capable and trustworthy, and they've already helped get one friend to safety.
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Right, let's do this. Trans and/or another minority? Need funds and support to leave the US? I can get you in touch with these folks. Message me.
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Maybe my leggings + tunic look needs brought out for this. Just a bit mumsy but can still be neat.
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Arg, how do I dress when going into a school to work with teens, definitely not wanting to give off schoolteacher vibes but not wanting to go "trying too hard" either?
[#]overthinking #fashion
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Stupid #TransJoy of the day is realising my boobs are big enough that I can push them up against my own chin.
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Fuuuuuuuck accidentally outed to my parents-in-law in an incredibly embarrassing way. 🤦♀️
They were decent about it at least.
Quick follow-up call to one brother-in-law, text message to the other, and wow, I'm finally out to everyone in my life.
I won't have to "boymode" anymore at least.
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Not of course that this is all I am or all I want to be. It was always a false dichotomy. "Basicness" doesn't threaten my identity. Everyone's interesting in their own way.
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I used to be so sneering of "normie" culture, both masculine and feminine coded. But now... shoe shopping followed by a pumpkin spice latte sounds pretty great, actually.
How much of my pride in being special and different was just sour grapes that I felt threatened by masculine cultural touchstones and unable to access feminine ones?
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This morning I'm attempting to Zumba after getting slightly merry on cocktails last night. 🥱
And my first thought on that fact was "wow! I've turned into a kinda basic woman!"
But I'd rather be a basic woman than an acidic "man". 🍋
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Cocktail dress!
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Cocktail bar makeup!
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Today's mood: if I am a bitch for being a woman who looks out for her own mental health and safety, then I am a bitch.
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Reflecting again on the bizarre messaging of Western capitalist society, where women are expected to be without doing and men expected to do without being.
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Continuing to ice it at home while Ori sits on my chest and purrs. 🐈⬛
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Anyway I dunno if I'm gonna have to start wailing pitifully or something to actually have an injury taken seriously now, or what.
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First of all I'm totally fine, but I just realised my cis male friends might literally be the death of me.
Climbing at the bouldering gym, my foot slips and I hit my shin, hard, on a volume. I fall back and land on my butt, dazed
Climbing buddy, turning around to see me: "wow, are you ok?"
Me, pausing to assess likely damage through the adrenaline surge: "not really"
Buddy, in comedy voice: "are you in need of medical assistance?"
Me, not laughing: "yes"
Buddy: "haha, yeah"
Me: "I think I'm going to need an ice pack"
Buddy: "ooh, that bad?"
Me: "yes"
Buddy: "yeah, sometimes it is like that"
I stare at him
Buddy: "let's see it"
I carefully peel up my leggings, revealing a long tender graze, turning redder by the moment
Climbing buddy moves towards it with his finger
Me: "don't poke at it!"
Buddy: "I wasn't going to"
I start to look around for anyone who might actually help me
Buddy: "do you want me to get you an ice pack?"
Me: "Yes. Please."
He continues to just stand there
Me, losing my temper: "Go! Jesus Christ."
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Emailed the company to disconnect my traditional home alarm system, which is currently flashing a warning about low battery in a device that doesn't even exist, and threatening to go off at any time about it. 🙄
I'm thinking of installing something more user-serviceable in its stead, but the only product I see is the Amazon Ring alarm system. I might go for that, but are there any competing products by less evil companies?
Again I'm only looking for things which I could, at a pinch, install and maintain myself. Screw being at the mercy of a company that I have to call up to fix problems for me.
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I'm determined to make a better job of being a dirty student than my first time round. 😂 For one thing, I'm the correct gender this time. 💁♀️
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