03-29 Will I Miss The Fun

Will I Miss the Fun?

No! Once that little porn monster is dead and your body stops craving dopamine and the porn water slides in your brain start to fade due to lack of ‘greasing’, any remaining brainwashing will vanish and you will find yourself both physically and mentally better equipped not only to cope with the stresses and strains of life but to enjoy the good times to the full.

There is only one danger and that is the influence of those who still use sex as their lying crutch and damned pleasure. “The other man's grass is always greener,” is commonplace in many aspects of our lives and is easily understandable. Why is it in the case of PMOing, where the disadvantages are so enormous as compared with even the illusory ‘advantages,’ that the ex-PMOer tend to envy the man or woman who appears to demand sex and use porn for pleasure and a crutch?

With all the brainwashing of our childhood it is quite understandable that we fall into the trap. Why is it that, once we realize what a mug's game it is and many of us manage to kick the habit, we walk straight back into the same trap? It is the influence of society's brainwashing of porn being conflated with sex and presented as normal. The ex-PMOer has a pang! The insecure void feelings of them being single, which in itself is not a crime anyway, causes anxiety and cues them to PMO water slide. This is indeed a curious anomaly, particularly if you consider this piece of observation: not only is every non-PMOer in the world happy to be a non-PMOer but every PMOer in the world, even with his warped, addicted, brainwashed mind suffering the delusion that he enjoys it or it relaxes him, wishes he had never become hooked in the first place. So why do some ex-PMOers envy the PMOer on these occasions? There are two reasons.

1. “Just one peek.” Remember; it doesn't exist. Stop seeing that isolated occasion and start looking at it from the point of view of the PMOer. You may be envying him but he doesn't approve of himself: he envies you. If only you could somehow watch (clinically) another PMOer. They can be the most powerful boost of all to help you of it. Notice how quickly they open many tabs and many windows of their browsers? They fast forward to their important minutes. How quickly they get bored of some clips and how quickly they run through the gamut of genres producing novelty, shock, anxiety, worry etc. Notice particularly that not only is he/she not aware that he or she is PMOing but even the act of masturbation appears to be automatic. Remember, he is not enjoying it; it's just that he cannot enjoy himself without it. Particularly remember that when he leaves to go to sleep after his visit he is drained of energy. The next morning, when he wakes up with a weakened will, lost energy, bleary eyes, he is going to have to carry on choking himself at the first appearance of stress and strain. The next time he has a pain in the penis, the next ED episode or a fading penetration when he is in the company of a non-PMOer, he has to continue this lifetime chain of paying through the nose just for the privilege of destroying himself physically and mentally. He is facing a lifetime of filth, bad mental health, stained confidence, a lifetime of slavery, a lifetime of destroying himself, a lifetime of black shadows at the back of his mind. And all of this is to achieve what purpose? The lying illusion if getting what you ‘deserve’ and the damned pleasure?

2. The second reason why some ex- PMOers have pangs on these occasions is because the PMOer is doing something i.e. self pleasuring and the non-PMOer is not, so he tends to feel deprived. Get it clear in your mind before you start: it is not the non-PMOer who is being deprived. It is the poor PMOer who is being deprived of:

• HEALTH
• ENERGY
• MONEY
• CONFIDENCE
• PEACE OF MIND
• COURAGE
• TRANQUILLITY
• FREEDOM
• SELF-RESPECT.

Get out of the habit of envying PMOers and start seeing them as the miserable, pathetic creatures they really are. I know: I was the one of the world's worst. That is why you are reading this book and the ones who cannot face up to it, who have to go on kidding themselves, are the most pathetic of all.

You wouldn't envy a heroin addict. Like all drug addiction, yours won't get better. Each year it will get worse and worse. If you don't enjoy being a PMOer today, you'll enjoy it even less tomorrow. Don't envy other PMOers. Pity them. Believe me: THEY NEED YOUR PITY.

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