=> < Note to Self | ~starbreaker

Good.

Also, it's the other person's job to decide for themselves whether or not they want to date you? Don't deny them their agency. Alternatively, what have they done for you that you should make their lives easier by sparing them the effort of rejecting you?

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=> ~shiloh wrote:

Yeah, of course she has agency in the decision, it's really her choice, I just have to offer it. I'm trying to remind myself that, barring her murdering me, any reaction she has won't be that big of a deal in the long run.

That last bit is an interesting way to think of the situation too. I'm not sure how I feel about it, but its certainly got my brain going.