=> Midnight Pub

(Bouncer intervened)

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[Bartender]: eh... nothing to see here -- who wants to try out new IPA?

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=> ~tadpole wrote:

If you want to shove away your 'devilish' feelings you can. I also know, as a happy trans person in a happy relationship that the rate at which trans folks end up killing themselves is a result of the stigmatization of us. We are hated. We are seen as an other, the perverse opposition, and that is such a lonely life to live, when one doesn't have a proper support network.

Alternatively, consider that trans people are human, no different from yourself. I am a childish trans person to the outside world. I enjoy media that a lot of people consider childish, I try to continue to be happy in spite of hardship and I find comfort in whatever I can, even if it is stuffed animals and ds games. And yet that does not make my girlfriend perverse or a pedophile.

Talk to them. Learn about their life and their experiences, and share your own if you wish. Discovering any sort of love can be wonderful, as long as you explore it and learn from it. Transitioning and finding comfort in the arms of my love- as horribly sappy as it sounds- has been absolutely huge for my growth as a person I feel.

Either way, even if you wouldn't wish the same for me, I wish you the best in your journey whichever path you take. I hope your sad love becomes happier.

=> ~melodyuwu wrote (thread):

if they use pronouns she/her then I believe you should use them in your post too. You would show some respect this way I believe if it turns out they are transgender. And besides, they can have whatever pronouns they want regardless of gender ;p

you should also probably play tetris with them, because tetris is a great game