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Things I now block for, aggressively:
Cynicism and learned helplessness.
I cannot afford to have you in my inputs.
I do not have resources to waste on filtering you out.
This is self-care and survival.
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Questions I keep asking myself, personally and professionally:
How many spoons am I costing someone else?
How much resilience?
Whose agenda am I really advancing here?
How can I proceed in a trauma-informed way?
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Any time you feel you need to do something for someone else's "own good", you might first ask yourself:
Where is consent in this decision?
Where is autonomy and agency?
Where is dignity?
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You can choose in any moment no to be the cat.
You can also cultivate the habit of not being the cat.
I recommend this.
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I'm thinking tonight as I often do about laser pointers and cats.
Who is holding the laser pointer? Who is the cat?
Always good to ask.
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A reminder that #ContentWarnings are fundamentally about consent.
It's not about soft-peddling reality or coddling readers.
When it comes to political news in particular, it's about making it possible for the many vulnerable people who are directly and secondarily affected by these developments to opt in or out to seeing deeply traumatizing content.
If you care about marginalized people, then #CWs are an obvious choice.
If you don't care about the vulnerable or consent... sit with what.
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Chatting by text and voice note with a friend on Signal just now.
Me, by voice: I eat a fairly sattvic diet.
My friend, by voice: You eat a fairly... sapphic diet?
Me, by text: For better or worse, I do not eat a very lesbian diet, no.
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