Loosing pseudo-community connections.

31 December 2024

Not too long ago, I dramatically reduced the amount of time I spent on my

smartphone by disabling my YouTube history, deleting all my social media

apps, and removing any games or apps that wasted my time. For someone who

lives in a somewhat isolated area, this was probably not a good idea. Those

apps provided me with a sense of community. It wasn't real, but that didn't

matter when it comes to one's need to connect with other people --even on a

superficial level.

As I implied above, I have no close friends nearby. I also do not share the

same interests as those who I work with, or those that live nearby. And

honestly, I have very little desire to form bonds over fishing, hunting,

and snowmobiling.

This leaves me with a little bit of a situation. Unplugging has left me

feeling better, without having my interests being manipulated by an

algorithm, and not being overburden with everything that's being gossiped

over on the mainstream. But that sense of connection to something more than

myself, which I thought I could live without, is leaving a void inside of

me.

I'm not completely out ideas, yet. I was hoping to be more productive with

my time, read more, and engage myself in more creative projects. All I've

been doing is binge watching movies to soak up the time. Imagine that. If I

want to get something out of my time, I need to put some effort into it.

Who knew? I have some ideas of what I need to do, and I'm very aware I need

to find a way to connect with other people --wherever they may be. It's

an ongoing project.

I would not suggest to anyone to follow my example. A more conservative

approach would probably be better, by limiting certain things in their

lives that causes them distress. I, for some reason, like punishing myself,

and I have no intentions to allow myself some leniency with the smartphone

apps. I know who I, and I know how easy it is for me to backslide on

commitments. I'll figure out a solution to this "crisis."

Until then, have a Happy New Years.

~j

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